Comments on: Don’t hate her because she’s beautiful

By: Kyla Bea

Kyla Bea — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 18:07:57 +0000

That’s too bad – especially because if she’s cute and Elisha Cluthberty, and has just finished her masters, she sounds like she could be really cool!

It’s funny how girls are to each other – if we perceive someone to be less attractive than us we are nice to them because they’re not a threat or we pity them, and if we perceive someone to be more attractive than us we’re suspicious and don’t try to make friends. It’s hard, some of the girls that I know who are the prettiest are also depressed and terribly unhappy – and because they’re perceived to not need friendship they have almost no one to go to.

It’s not revolutionary, but I wish getting to know people was part of the reaction when we met people. I’m glad that you showed her around and were nice - it can be a little tough, but it’s about you as much as it is about her = )

By: Haley Faye

Haley Faye — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 22:02:26 +0000

…… you know, I’d really love to be her….

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:32:10 +0000

ahh that’s too bad. people do this all the time and my answer is always ‘tell me something about her that doesn’t have to do with her appearance.”

By: Yoda

Yoda — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 14:30:59 +0000

I would like to work where you work. Are you guys still hiring?

By: Paula

Paula — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 12:17:23 +0000

Man, this is so true. The resentment comes not so much from how attractive another person is, but more from the fact that everyone ELSE thinks she is attractive and are forcing that fact down your throat!