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	<title>Comments on: It&#8217;s Not Me, It&#8217;s You.</title>
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	<description>Overcoming the Quarter-life Crisis</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 02:03:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Cheap New York City</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-3376</link>
		<dc:creator>Cheap New York City</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 00:33:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously amazing post, I loved reading through it. It had many superb facts. I'm bookmarking this web site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously amazing post, I loved reading through it. It had many superb facts. I&#8217;m bookmarking this web site.</p>
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		<title>By: CupidMarket</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-3331</link>
		<dc:creator>CupidMarket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 11:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice to know that there is someone out there that took the time to help us men that have wonderful wife to better understand the differences.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice to know that there is someone out there that took the time to help us men that have wonderful wife to better understand the differences.</p>
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		<title>By: Benny Goodler</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-3150</link>
		<dc:creator>Benny Goodler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Do you outsource your graphic work for your website?  I like them and would be interested in knowing who did yours! I'm in the process of designing my template for my new blog but having a hard time. Looking to pay someone to help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you outsource your graphic work for your website?  I like them and would be interested in knowing who did yours! I&#8217;m in the process of designing my template for my new blog but having a hard time. Looking to pay someone to help.</p>
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		<title>By: Flirt</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-2284</link>
		<dc:creator>Flirt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 04:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very intresting Post, where is your rss feed?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very intresting Post, where is your rss feed?</p>
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		<title>By: Umm&#8230; Now what? &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Jaded</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-2282</link>
		<dc:creator>Umm&#8230; Now what? &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Jaded</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2009 03:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I&#8217;m going to get a little deep on you guys today, but I promise, next week we can make fun of eHarmony again. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I&#8217;m going to get a little deep on you guys today, but I promise, next week we can make fun of eHarmony again. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: abbersnail</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-1799</link>
		<dc:creator>abbersnail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 22:35:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, I have one! After I ended a 6 1/2 year relationship, my mom bought me a 6-month membership to Match. I figured I might as well give it a try, at least I would get some good blog fodder out of it. I was out on a third date with a Match guy, and he started off the conversation by saying, "You know, you have a really hot body. REEEEALLY hot. But I can tell that you're one of THOSE girls; once you get a rock on your finger, your ass is going to just get so much bigger." I then told him that I was leaving, and he quipped, "Fine, this wasn't going anywhere anyway. I can already tell that you don't want to be the mother of my children."

AAAAAND scene.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I have one! After I ended a 6 1/2 year relationship, my mom bought me a 6-month membership to Match. I figured I might as well give it a try, at least I would get some good blog fodder out of it. I was out on a third date with a Match guy, and he started off the conversation by saying, &#8220;You know, you have a really hot body. REEEEALLY hot. But I can tell that you&#8217;re one of THOSE girls; once you get a rock on your finger, your ass is going to just get so much bigger.&#8221; I then told him that I was leaving, and he quipped, &#8220;Fine, this wasn&#8217;t going anywhere anyway. I can already tell that you don&#8217;t want to be the mother of my children.&#8221;</p>
<p>AAAAAND scene.</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-1776</link>
		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 01:14:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a guy that seriously had a bladder issue, and he was in the bathroom all of our date. I finally broke down and asked him about it because he was gone so frequently....

I write about it here: http://ihatenormalcy.blogspot.com/2008/09/pee-in-me-ode-to-online-dating.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a guy that seriously had a bladder issue, and he was in the bathroom all of our date. I finally broke down and asked him about it because he was gone so frequently&#8230;.</p>
<p>I write about it here: <a href="http://ihatenormalcy.blogspot.com/2008/09/pee-in-me-ode-to-online-dating.html" rel="nofollow">http://ihatenormalcy.blogspot.com/2008/09/pee-in-me-ode-to-online-dating.html</a></p>
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		<title>By: solargalaxy6</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-1765</link>
		<dc:creator>solargalaxy6</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 19:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'll have to say, eHarmony's worked out well for me - I met someone from there my very first weekend of being signed up, and we're still dating 7 months later and talking marriage :-)

I did however have some very, very horrible experiences on PlentyofFish before that, including one that can hands-down beat out just about anything else: http://solargalaxy6.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/ewwies-what-a-horrible-date/

That blog entry's also just about the highlights, and I left out little tidbits like: he showed up to our date wearing sweat-shorts, commented on the fact that I was carrying a purse when we both knew he'd be paying, that he hadn't bothered putting in his false teeth before we met, and on, and on, and on.

By the way, LOVE the booty comment mentioned above :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll have to say, eHarmony&#8217;s worked out well for me - I met someone from there my very first weekend of being signed up, and we&#8217;re still dating 7 months later and talking marriage <img src='http://ummnowwhat.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I did however have some very, very horrible experiences on PlentyofFish before that, including one that can hands-down beat out just about anything else: <a href="http://solargalaxy6.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/ewwies-what-a-horrible-date/" rel="nofollow">http://solargalaxy6.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/ewwies-what-a-horrible-date/</a></p>
<p>That blog entry&#8217;s also just about the highlights, and I left out little tidbits like: he showed up to our date wearing sweat-shorts, commented on the fact that I was carrying a purse when we both knew he&#8217;d be paying, that he hadn&#8217;t bothered putting in his false teeth before we met, and on, and on, and on.</p>
<p>By the way, LOVE the booty comment mentioned above <img src='http://ummnowwhat.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Brandy</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-1764</link>
		<dc:creator>Brandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 17:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to say I'm always creeped out when people describe themselves as a 'big teddy bear'. I really don't know why, but just imagine someone smothering me to death with a hug.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to say I&#8217;m always creeped out when people describe themselves as a &#8216;big teddy bear&#8217;. I really don&#8217;t know why, but just imagine someone smothering me to death with a hug.</p>
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		<title>By: Princess Pointful</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/01/30/its-not-me-its-you/#comment-1763</link>
		<dc:creator>Princess Pointful</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 17:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love this post.
I think I am way too damn judgmental to ever online date. I grammar judge, and I need real wit but can't handle bad attempts at humour.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love this post.<br />
I think I am way too damn judgmental to ever online date. I grammar judge, and I need real wit but can&#8217;t handle bad attempts at humour.</p>
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