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	<title>Comments on: The Big V&#8230;and V is for Valentine</title>
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		<title>By: shirts</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/02/13/the-big-vand-v-is-for-valentine/#comment-3450</link>
		<dc:creator>shirts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2011 21:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good site! I adore numerous of the articles which have been written, and particularly the comments posted! I will undoubtedly be visiting once again!</p>
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		<title>By: Princess Pointful</title>
		<link>http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/02/13/the-big-vand-v-is-for-valentine/#comment-1909</link>
		<dc:creator>Princess Pointful</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 06:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm actually one of those shades of grey folks, honestly. I don't get really wrapped up in it, because I think colour-by-the-numbers romance (e.g., flowers + chocolate = love) isn't real romance, but at the same time, I don't hate it, because I still think there is something  nice about celebrating love. Does that make sense?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m actually one of those shades of grey folks, honestly. I don&#8217;t get really wrapped up in it, because I think colour-by-the-numbers romance (e.g., flowers + chocolate = love) isn&#8217;t real romance, but at the same time, I don&#8217;t hate it, because I still think there is something  nice about celebrating love. Does that make sense?</p>
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		<title>By: If This Doesn&#8217;t Make You Ditch Your Diet, Nothing Will &#171; In Good Taste</title>
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		<dc:creator>If This Doesn&#8217;t Make You Ditch Your Diet, Nothing Will &#171; In Good Taste</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 01:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Day post, or a heart-shaped cookie extravaganza (and because you can find those here and here), I thought it would only be appropriate, in the hours immediately following February 14, [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Day post, or a heart-shaped cookie extravaganza (and because you can find those here and here), I thought it would only be appropriate, in the hours immediately following February 14, [...]</p>
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		<title>By: alexa - cleveland's a plum</title>
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		<dc:creator>alexa - cleveland's a plum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 16:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>valentine's day doesn't kill me,  mean it would be nice if i had a boy to celebrate it with but i'm used to being single. 

it is what it is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>valentine&#8217;s day doesn&#8217;t kill me,  mean it would be nice if i had a boy to celebrate it with but i&#8217;m used to being single. </p>
<p>it is what it is.</p>
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		<title>By: emily</title>
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		<dc:creator>emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2009 02:23:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm so glad you wrote this post because this is exactly how I feel.  I've always spent Valentine's Day with friends and focused more on that than any kind of romance.  Perhaps it is because I've never had a romantic valentine but I don't think being single should mean that the holiday means any less.  I look forward to the homemade cards and cookies.

Also, I will be spending the night out at a basketball game with a friend.  Not too romantic but it will be fun :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so glad you wrote this post because this is exactly how I feel.  I&#8217;ve always spent Valentine&#8217;s Day with friends and focused more on that than any kind of romance.  Perhaps it is because I&#8217;ve never had a romantic valentine but I don&#8217;t think being single should mean that the holiday means any less.  I look forward to the homemade cards and cookies.</p>
<p>Also, I will be spending the night out at a basketball game with a friend.  Not too romantic but it will be fun <img src='http://ummnowwhat.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Kathleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 19:38:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I usually feel irritated over the commercial aspects of it, along with the implication that all I want are chocolate, flowers, and/or diamonds, but I have a huge weakness for holidays that give me an excuse to buy presents for people I care about.  My boyfriend of almost a year has to work on V-Day this year (he's a cook at an upscale restaurant), but that's okay -- I got him a torque wrench and a dorky card, and we'll probably go down to the food carts once he gets off so that we can sit by the fire pit there and drink cocoa.  

I Valentine's Day is a lot more fun when you're not with someone who's putting a lot of pressure on you to "prove" you love them.  I had an ex-girlfriend who used to get mad that I couldn't afford to buy her jewelry or dinner at a fancy restaurant.  Those Valentine's Days?  Awful.  I definitely prefer the laid-back thing I have going with my boy now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I usually feel irritated over the commercial aspects of it, along with the implication that all I want are chocolate, flowers, and/or diamonds, but I have a huge weakness for holidays that give me an excuse to buy presents for people I care about.  My boyfriend of almost a year has to work on V-Day this year (he&#8217;s a cook at an upscale restaurant), but that&#8217;s okay &#8212; I got him a torque wrench and a dorky card, and we&#8217;ll probably go down to the food carts once he gets off so that we can sit by the fire pit there and drink cocoa.  </p>
<p>I Valentine&#8217;s Day is a lot more fun when you&#8217;re not with someone who&#8217;s putting a lot of pressure on you to &#8220;prove&#8221; you love them.  I had an ex-girlfriend who used to get mad that I couldn&#8217;t afford to buy her jewelry or dinner at a fancy restaurant.  Those Valentine&#8217;s Days?  Awful.  I definitely prefer the laid-back thing I have going with my boy now.</p>
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		<title>By: thatShortChick</title>
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		<dc:creator>thatShortChick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 17:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i've never been into v-day but my mom has always tried to make it special for me, ever since I was little. 

but, i actually wrote a post over at my blog about how i'm spending the enitre day EATING MYSELF SILLY.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;ve never been into v-day but my mom has always tried to make it special for me, ever since I was little. </p>
<p>but, i actually wrote a post over at my blog about how i&#8217;m spending the enitre day EATING MYSELF SILLY.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 16:27:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yay! A fellow fan of all things pink and red!

I have a different opinion on the heart-shaped cake pans, though. I want to get one just so I can make conversation heart cakes. I think my first one will say "EAT ME." 

;-) Happy Valentine's Day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay! A fellow fan of all things pink and red!</p>
<p>I have a different opinion on the heart-shaped cake pans, though. I want to get one just so I can make conversation heart cakes. I think my first one will say &#8220;EAT ME.&#8221; </p>
<p> <img src='http://ummnowwhat.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> Happy Valentine&#8217;s Day!</p>
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		<title>By: Kurt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kurt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 15:46:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I haven't had anyone to celebrate Valentine's Day with for the last 5 or 6 years.  Even if I happened to be dating someone around mid-February, it never tended to be serious enough to make a big to-do about.  In fact, I came to look at Valentine's Day as an opportunity to go out and trawl the bars for depressed women looking for love (or maybe I was just looking for excuses to trawl for women?).  

Now, though, I actually have someone to celebrate with -- someone worth celebrating.  So this February 14th I can be found holed up in my kitchen cooking a Valentine's Day feast, complete with her favorite dessert.  I can't help but marvel at how far I've come... or at least how much meeting the right person can make you want to be better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t had anyone to celebrate Valentine&#8217;s Day with for the last 5 or 6 years.  Even if I happened to be dating someone around mid-February, it never tended to be serious enough to make a big to-do about.  In fact, I came to look at Valentine&#8217;s Day as an opportunity to go out and trawl the bars for depressed women looking for love (or maybe I was just looking for excuses to trawl for women?).  </p>
<p>Now, though, I actually have someone to celebrate with &#8212; someone worth celebrating.  So this February 14th I can be found holed up in my kitchen cooking a Valentine&#8217;s Day feast, complete with her favorite dessert.  I can&#8217;t help but marvel at how far I&#8217;ve come&#8230; or at least how much meeting the right person can make you want to be better.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 15:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually like Valentine's Day, even though I too have never had a date for the day.  Usually I'm without a boyfriend during the month of February.  And even when I had one a couple years ago, he was on call on Valentine's Day, so we celebrated on a different day and just hung out at his house on the actual day, which I don't count as a date.  When I'm single, like this year, I still like the day... love the candy and hearts and stuff you see in the stores... but always wish I had someone to spend it with.  I don't have definite plans this year.  All I know is that I'm buying some champagne and candy today, whether I end up sharing it with friends or have it all myself is yet to be determined!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually like Valentine&#8217;s Day, even though I too have never had a date for the day.  Usually I&#8217;m without a boyfriend during the month of February.  And even when I had one a couple years ago, he was on call on Valentine&#8217;s Day, so we celebrated on a different day and just hung out at his house on the actual day, which I don&#8217;t count as a date.  When I&#8217;m single, like this year, I still like the day&#8230; love the candy and hearts and stuff you see in the stores&#8230; but always wish I had someone to spend it with.  I don&#8217;t have definite plans this year.  All I know is that I&#8217;m buying some champagne and candy today, whether I end up sharing it with friends or have it all myself is yet to be determined!</p>
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