Comments on: The debate rages on… http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/ Overcoming the Quarter-life Crisis Sun, 01 Aug 2010 03:28:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: Umm… Now what? » Blog Archive » A Contribution to the Debate http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2942 Umm… Now what? » Blog Archive » A Contribution to the Debate Fri, 29 May 2009 14:07:49 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2942 [...] reading over some back posts on UNW, I took particular interest in Princess Pointful’s post about “The Debate” over men and women being [...] [...] reading over some back posts on UNW, I took particular interest in Princess Pointful’s post about “The Debate” over men and women being [...]

]]> By: Therapeutic Ramblings http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2377 Therapeutic Ramblings Sat, 21 Mar 2009 04:32:41 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2377 If they are attracted to each other....I think it is really hard. You know how we all have flaws....this is mine. I've been involved with most of my attractive friends (I think we all have bad impulse control), but I don't regret it. Many times it makes us closer, though it can be a bit odd when we all get together.....eh, you only live once, right? If they are attracted to each other….I think it is really hard. You know how we all have flaws….this is mine. I’ve been involved with most of my attractive friends (I think we all have bad impulse control), but I don’t regret it. Many times it makes us closer, though it can be a bit odd when we all get together…..eh, you only live once, right?

]]> By: pinkjellybaby http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2274 pinkjellybaby Thu, 12 Mar 2009 09:04:10 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2274 We wrote about this the other day on the Secret Lady Garden blog over at wordpress. The resounding answer was 'NO' it always gets messy somewhere along the line...maybe you never find out, but I think at some point, one of the other of you gets conflicting feelings. We wrote about this the other day on the Secret Lady Garden blog over at wordpress.
The resounding answer was ‘NO’ it always gets messy somewhere along the line…maybe you never find out, but I think at some point, one of the other of you gets conflicting feelings.

]]> By: Travis http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2268 Travis Thu, 12 Mar 2009 00:31:55 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2268 Yeah, I think men and women can just be friends. Most of my friends are female, and I know we'll stay friends because most of them are either married or much older than me. Yeah, I think men and women can just be friends. Most of my friends are female, and I know we’ll stay friends because most of them are either married or much older than me.

]]> By: Reagan http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2266 Reagan Wed, 11 Mar 2009 03:48:32 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2266 I want to believe that we can "just" be friends. So so badly. But my experiences are teaching me otherwise... :( I want to believe that we can “just” be friends. So so badly. But my experiences are teaching me otherwise… :(

]]> By: mandy http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2264 mandy Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:49:27 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2264 I am in the yes camp. Yes, men and women can be friends. I am in the yes camp. Yes, men and women can be friends.

]]> By: brandy http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2262 brandy Tue, 10 Mar 2009 19:51:19 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2262 Also, this will be the only time I agree with Matt. Vanilla is better than chocolate. Also, this will be the only time I agree with Matt. Vanilla is better than chocolate.

]]> By: brandy http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2261 brandy Tue, 10 Mar 2009 19:50:48 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2261 "Yes, males and females can be friends– but that doesn’t mean that he has never thought of you naked, or she hasn’t wondered what kind of a kisser you are." I think this says it perfectly. I had a friend in university who was a dude and we often talked about it. And then, you know, slept together and later went back to just being friends. I think once you accept that there's a good chance you WILL think more than friend thoughts about the person, it's so much easier to be friends. “Yes, males and females can be friends– but that doesn’t mean that he has never thought of you naked, or she hasn’t wondered what kind of a kisser you are.” I think this says it perfectly. I had a friend in university who was a dude and we often talked about it. And then, you know, slept together and later went back to just being friends. I think once you accept that there’s a good chance you WILL think more than friend thoughts about the person, it’s so much easier to be friends.

]]> By: maris http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2260 maris Tue, 10 Mar 2009 19:50:30 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2260 TWILIGHT, HANDS DOWN. Sorry, just had to get that in there. Yes they can be friends. Can they be heart-to-heart-soulmate-best friends without one party or the other developing romantic feelings? i'll believe it when i experience it! TWILIGHT, HANDS DOWN.

Sorry, just had to get that in there.

Yes they can be friends. Can they be heart-to-heart-soulmate-best friends without one party or the other developing romantic feelings?

i’ll believe it when i experience it!

]]> By: brookem http://ummnowwhat.com/2009/03/10/the-debate-rages-on/#comment-2258 brookem Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:54:40 +0000 http://ummnowwhat.com/?p=542#comment-2258 i think im in the yes camp. but like you, i have a lot of "buts" in the back of my mind too. ps- i just watched this movie on sunday again. i think im in the yes camp. but like you, i have a lot of “buts” in the back of my mind too.

ps- i just watched this movie on sunday again.

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